Trauma, Family, and Healing
03/13/2026 04:00:00 PM
The terrifying attack yesterday at Temple Israel of West Bloomfield, Michigan, hits very close to home. It is literally 4 minutes down the road from the congregation where TBS alum Janet Christensen is the musical soloist. One of the rabbis on staff at Temple Israel is a rabbinic school classmate of mine. Another of the rabbis (there are 7 on staff) was my unit supervisor when I was first a counselor at a Jewish summer camp. Several TBS...Read more...
A Note From Rabbi Amy R. Perlin, Founding Rabbi Emerita
03/06/2026 03:42:34 PM
Dear TBS,
Gary and I are thrilled that you are returning to our sanctuary this Shabbat. We have watched from afar here in California as Rabbi Widzer, President Alex Eichel, the amazing temple staff (Sharon Klein, Ellen Wolynec, Stephanie Ben Simon, Julie Strasberg) and a host of member leaders and volunteers have kept the congregation going and thriving since "The Flood." How blessed we are that our beloved sister...Read more...
Thoughts and Prayers
03/06/2026 03:39:30 PM
Nuance and complexity are not our current cultural strengths. It feels easier in today’s world to be rigidly and simplistically binary. Either you are for something or you are against it. Either you agree with me or you are my mortal enemy who is maliciously misguided and eternally wrong. But our world is seldom so separable into clear-cut choices of one or the other. Situations are complicated and in need of context to be fully understood....Read more...
Returning Gratefully
02/27/2026 03:27:28 PM
We are coming home!
There has been a flurry of activity in the TBS building over the past few weeks. New carpeting is now installed in the Sanctuary, the hallways, and most of the Social Hall and public spaces of the building. The floorboard paneling will be completed early next week, and our artwork will be rehung on the walls. New tiling for the floors of the classrooms has been ordered and is expected to arrive soon. The tapestries...Read more...
Jewish Values at the State Capitol
02/20/2026 11:38:50 AM
I never want to live in theocracy, a society where the state law is religious law and the government is led by religious leaders. But I do believe that Judaism has important values that can come to bear on the great issues of the day (immigration, health care, individual rights and responsibilities, and more) and can help shape public policy. That is why we take our 10th graders each year to the L’Taken Social Justice Seminar to learn about...Read more...
Love
02/13/2026 11:56:55 AM
As much as we may purchase cards, chocolates, and gifts for tomorrow, Valentine’s Day is not a Jewish holiday. There are many reasons that this is true, not the least of which is Valentine’s Day's association with a 3rd century Catholic saint. But that’s not to say that Judaism doesn’t value love.
The Hebrew root aleph-hey-vet, the basis of the verb ahav, “to love,” and the noun ahavah, “love,”...Read more...
The Rule of Law
02/06/2026 01:07:11 PM
Our ancient Israelites ancestors did not invent the idea of a code of law. Archeologists and historians have uncovered systems of laws adopted by other ancient Near Eastern civilizations. But our Torah portion this week contains perhaps the most famous expression of a basic set of laws – the Ten Commandments. Immortalized in texts, paintings, statues, films, and more, the Ten Commandments are fundamental to Judaism and broader...Read more...
Snow
01/23/2026 05:12:18 PM
As a kid growing up in the suburbs of Cleveland, Ohio, learning to deal with large amounts of snow was just a part of winter. Snow days off from school were relatively rare. It took a truly serious storm to stop society from functioning. I’ve told the story before of one snowy evening when there was a Brotherhood event scheduled at my temple, a dad-and-kids dinner with a huge raffle. It being Cleveland, there had been a...Read more...
Antisemitism
01/16/2026 12:39:24 PM
I was at the L’Taken Social Action Seminar this weekend with our 10th grade students this weekend when I heard about the arson attack at Beth Israel Congregation (BIC) in Jackson, Mississippi. The synagogue, which had been bombed by the KKK in 1967 for its involvement in the Civil Rights Movement, was set on fire in an act of hatred, destroying the administrative offices and the library, including two Torah scrolls. I know three rabbis who...Read more...
A New Routine
01/09/2026 11:49:14 AM
For many of us, this first week after winter break entails a return to our regular routine. We get back in the habit of waking up for school or work, attending our activities, eating more regular meals, and (hopefully!) going to sleep at a reasonable hour – all elements of a normal, nonvacation, regular routine.
These past few weeks have been anything but routine for TBS. After the flood on December 15, nothing has been normal. Most...Read more...
A New Year? Again?
01/02/2026 03:01:53 PM
It’s an occupational hazard, but when people talk about “the holiday season,” my mind automatically goes to the time period between Rosh HaShanah and Simchat Torah, not Thanksgiving to New Year’s. And when I get emails that say, “Donate now before the year ends,” I think about the end of Elul and the start of Tishrei, not the end of December and the beginning of January.
So my notion of “New Year’s” centers around...Read more...
Respecting Beliefs
12/26/2025 12:35:04 PM
There are things I like about the Christmas season: outdoor light displays, pretty music, candy canes, a few weeks of the year when people consciously try to be kind and considerate to others. Obviously, it’s not the theology that resonates with me. But I respect the faith and beliefs of those who mark the religious aspects of their holiday, as I would expect them to respect mine.
In this season of holiday cheer, it was therefore...Read more...
Resilience and Light
12/19/2025 12:31:00 PM
Resilience is “the ability to adapt, cope, and bounce back from adversity, stress, trauma, or significant challenges, allowing one to recover and even grow stronger.” Or so Google’s AI tells me. Resilience is the word that has been on my mind most of this week, as I have seen resilience in multiple places.
There is resilience in the Chanukah story. As we tell it, King Antiochus forbade the Jews in the Land of Israel to practice...Read more...
Chanukah Light
12/12/2025 02:28:06 PM
Chanukah always comes during the darkest part of the year. It seems pretty ironic that we celebrate the Festival of Lights when the hours of daylight are at their low point and the night is at its longest. But maybe that’s the whole point: into this time of darkness come the flames of the Chanukah candles, bringing light and joy to all who see them.
It may seem like the world around us is at a season of darkness, with much to cause...Read more...
Lessons From the Snow
12/05/2025 12:44:57 PM
I grew up in the suburbs of Cleveland, Ohio, home of lake-effect snow. I went to college in the New England of Currier and Ives snowscapes, and I was a rabbi for a dozen years in the Boston area, where blizzards were no match for determined B’nai Mitzvah families. So I am not intimidated by the idea of handling the roads in wintry weather. Watching this first snowfall of the season, I’ve also realized that lessons from driving in the snow...Read more...
Full on Thanksgiving
11/28/2025 12:12:41 PM
I have a friend from high school who has a way with words. About Thanksgiving, he once posted:
I hope to feel full on Thanksgiving:
PeaceFULL
GrateFULL
JoyFULL
ThankFULL
I know I am joyful from the magnificent Thanksgiving Eve service we had with Abiding Presence on Wednesday night. I am thankful for the opportunity I had yesterday to celebrate Thanksgiving with my family, including those who traveled here...Read more...
Giving Thanks
11/21/2025 03:09:54 PM
Thanksgiving is soon upon us. This secular American holiday reminds us of the importance of cultivating an attitude of gratitude, even in the midst of everything going on in our lives and the craziness of the world around us. In his book, This Grateful Heart, the poet Alden Solovy offers us this prayer to help us remember to give thanks:
To whom shall I give this grateful heart,
This joy that shines through the center of my...Read more...
From the Desk of the Director of Education: So Much Joy to Spread from Find the Shine and NFTY NoVa 'Micro-Region'
11/16/2025 11:39:59 AM
There exists a theory that one small interaction may later have a large ripple effect somewhere else known as the butterfly effect. A resonance with this idea of providing a moment for a butterfly effect to occur was the stimulus for two momentous occasions in the month of October.
For one event, a group of local educators brought together by the Jewish Federation of Greater Washington lead to the creation of a professional...Read more...
A Message From the Executive Director: Making a Lasting Impact Through Appreciated Assets
11/16/2025 11:38:09 AM
At TBS, every gift—large or small—helps sustain the vibrant community we’ve built together. Whether it’s supporting religious education, worship, or community programs, your generosity ensures that our Temple remains strong today and for generations to come.
One powerful way to give is through appreciated assets, such as stocks, bonds, or other marketable securities. For many people, this option provides a significant tax...Read more...
Presidential Musings: What It Means to Be a Congregation
11/16/2025 11:36:13 AM
What does it mean to be a congregation?
It means we care about one another.
Of course, we can pray at home. But we come together as a congregation to share in our life as Jews — to be part of the community of Israel, past, present, and future.
Once, the Gerer Rebbe asked one of his disciples, “How is Moshe Yaakov doing?”
The disciple didn’t know.
“What!” exclaimed the Rebbe. “You don’t...Read more...
Sisterhood Happenings
11/16/2025 11:34:42 AM
WTBS/Sisterhood is off to a great start this new year and looks forward to getting together throughout the year.
August was a busy month as we came together socially and again to begin our reflection for the upcoming High Holidays. We enjoyed great food, conversation and camaraderie at Anita Buchheim’s home for Summer Salads at the beginning of August. We shared a variety of salads and desserts and enjoyed sitting out on the patio...Read more...
Thank You For Your Service
11/14/2025 03:42:48 PM
When the Israelites were wandering through the wilderness, their camp was centered around the Mishkan (the Tabernacle), the portable sanctuary where they would worship and offer their sacrifices. The Levites were the tribe that helped the greater community by administering the Mishkan, serving as its workers. This is why TBS refers to the people helping and ushering on Shabbat morning “Levites,” as they serve the community by helping TBS...Read more...
Remembering Rabin
11/07/2025 11:57:24 AM
Thirty years ago this week – November 4, 1995 – Israeli Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin was assassinated by a right-wing Jewish extremist who was opposed to the peace process Israel was pursuing with the Palestinians and its Arab neighbors. Rabin was gunned down in Tel Aviv as he left a massive rally for peace. His final public words were ones of peace.
Thirty years ago this week, I was living in Jerusalem for my first year of...Read more...
Lunch Connection
11/03/2025 09:13:34 AM
I had lunch yesterday, which is not that remarkable as I have lunch most days. (As a friend once reminded me, lunch is one of the three most important meals of the day.) It was who I had lunch with that was more notable. Ten TBS members – all furloughed federal employees or otherwise affected by the government shutdown and turmoil of the past several months – took me up on the offer for lunch together at a local...Read more...
Caring for One Another
10/31/2025 04:31:09 PM
The government shutdown enters another week. No matter what your political stance on it may be, I hope we can all agree that real people are suffering real effects from this: missed paychecks, loss of SNAP benefits for food, escalating health care costs, and more. Add to the furloughed workers and military members those who have been affected by federal layoffs, loss of government-adjacent jobs, the impact on private businesses, and the...Read more...
Creation from Chronic Crisis
10/17/2025 03:12:51 PM
This week I felt again the “chronic crisis” that I spoke about on Yom Kippur. There are so many different things happening at once. The living Israeli hostages were released, bringing joy and relief, but the bodies of many others are still captive. Hamas is reasserting its power with continued violence against Gazans. Another of the president’s perceived enemies has been indicted. Our courts wrestle with the deployment of troops on U.S....Read more...
Waiting at Sukkot
10/10/2025 12:04:13 PM
In the Book of Exodus, when the Israelites were freed from Egypt, they did not make the journey to the shore of the Sea of Reeds all in one day. They camped along the way, including stopping at a city known as Sukkot (Ex 12:37).
Rabbi Tali Adler connect this Biblical fact with the circumstances of the present moment, as we wait for the Israeli hostages to be released. She writes:
There's a place you land after you've left...Read more...
More Holidays to Celebrate!
10/03/2025 09:10:24 AM
There are more holidays for us to celebrate joyful Jewish living and learning!
The harvest festival of Sukkot starts this Monday night. After the introspection and reflection of Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur, the ancient rabbis declared Sukkot to be Z’man Simchateinu, a time of great rejoicing! Sukkot is a time of thanksgiving, offering gratitude for all the blessings we have in our lives. Hence the sukkah, decorated with fruits and...Read more...
Preparing for Yom Kippur
09/26/2025 03:21:23 PM
The story is told: it was just about this time of year, somewhere around the High Holy Days, and a religious school teacher was taking the opportunity to teach her class about sin and repentance. On and on she went about doing teshuvah, returning and repenting, for Rosh HaShannah and Yom Kippur. She wanted to remind the students that in order to truly do teshuvah, you first had to ask for forgiveness from people you had hurt....Read more...
Finding Ourselves Together
09/19/2025 01:50:08 PM
The High Holy Days are here! After this past month of Elul, a time of preparation, Rosh Hashanah begins on Monday evening. And even if you haven’t spent this past month getting ready for the introspection and contemplation of these coming days, it’s not too late! Now is the season of looking inward and outward, readying ourselves for the new year ahead.
To help us, Rabbi Jack Reimer shares an often-told story: There was a...Read more...